I am just exhausted! This semester I am taking classes on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday which means my only weeknight home is Wednesday. So Wednesday's are usually reserved for DH and I cooking at home, me picking up the house, and running errands. Yesterday I decided I really wanted to get my nails and toes done, so I stopped at the cheap place by my house which I love! I didn't get there until 5:00pm because I was running late from work, but I got a chair right away. I had to wait a few minutes for the lady to start working on my toes, but by 5:45 my toes were done. Then someone came in with an appt so I had to wait until she was done, so I sat waited again until 6:15 to get my nails done. This, of course, meant I didn't get out of there until 6:45!! Ahh, there went all my plans for the evening. DH and I ran and grabbed some sushi which was yummy, and headed home about 8:30. I still had all the regularly scheduled cleaning, laundry ect to do so I didn't end up getting to bed until after 11:00pm, ugh! Then I was up bright and early 5:00am to head to boot camp! An of course boot camp was a killer today, so I am exhausted!
During dinner I talked to DH about something that's been on my mind. I'm feeling overwhelmed with the amount of things that are going to be on my plate when our phantom baby arrives. I know I shouldn't stress about this now, but I'm a worrier so I can't help it. I work full time, and do my MBA in the evenings (usually 2 nights a week). I also do the majority of the household chores (cleaning, laundry, paying bills, ect). Don't get me wrong, DH contributes (lawn, trash, ect) but I just tend to do the things that are done more frequently. So I finally told him at dinner that I'm worried about having a baby because I will need him to pick up a considerable load of the household chores. He seemed understanding and receptive and said he is definitely willing to help out more. I really hope he does. I just know I can't keep this pace up with a baby as well. Truthfully I don't think I will be able to keep this pace up even being pregnant.
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2 comments:
I just noticed that you started your blog. Yay!
I am the same way as you with the household chores. I hope my DH will also pick up the slack when we have a baby.
PS - Your wedding pictures are beautiful! :)
I also just noticed you started your blog, how exciting!
I wonder how I will be able to do all I do know once a baby comes but I think that you learn to just kinda fit it in. Kinda like grad school- I never thought id have time either, but somehow it gets done. That being said, I think its a GREAT idea to get DH more involved, I hope that works out!
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